parents and children
people give birth to children to see their survival inside their children’s lives. they mostly force their belief systems, ambitions, needs, fears, … into offsprings to create the most resemble copy of themselves. so basically one of them most important chains we should get rid of is the bearing our family desires.
what is the biggest proof? if you say you don’t like this world and simply want to volunteerly leave it, they will fight you with all of their power. why? because although your freedom from this world is what you need/want most, it will be equivalent to their loneliness and meaningless in this swamp again.
another smaller proof is that most of humans can accept to adopt someone else’s child because it’s not their gene and they can’t see their own survival inside them. (this is why orphans population gets bigger while people don’t take them)
children are also bearing their families problems like poverty, unhappiness, …
giving birth to children is one of the shittiest and egotistic possible things in the world. except for maybe 1 to 3% of the people who are rich, happy and in good place all other children are born so their parents won’t be alone in their swamps. they decide to have a child so now they would have one more ally in this swamp and since that poor child has no one else he has to love them back and cooperate to find a mutual way to get rid of the swamp.
my parents loved me very much and as much as it, they fucked me up. they forced their ambitions, obsessions, controlling, fears, shame, … into me, destroyed having a normal childhood for me, made me be a fighting dog all my life. of course they were not and are not aware of most of it, but they did it anyway. anyway, fuck regrets, excuses and victim mentality. in the end the only thing matters is what i do now.